If you love me, I have a huge favor to ask. This is definitely not my typical blog post, but as this is my personal blog about our lives, I feel like I don’t want to hide things from my readers…my friends.
Today (technically yesterday since this post goes live Wednesday), was a particularly bad day. It started off pretty hectic and I thought things had calmed down while I went to class. Class was just fine, and I got the great news that I officially have every single class done or in progress in order for me to graduate with my Bachelors of Interdisciplinary Studies- Early Childhood Generalist degree (aka to be a teacher). I was so excited, and then I got to work and it went downhill from there.
I never bring my job into my blog because honestly I don’t think it needs to be takes about on my blog. I basically got in trouble for something and it really stressed me out. I normally am so organized and on the ball with everything, but with school and student teaching, it’s been really hard to focus at work. I’m constantly exhausted and I’ve slacked on some important things at work and that’s totally not me.
Then it got worse. Mathew’s car has been acting up and has been in the shop since yesterday to check out what’s going on with it. We thought it’d be $800 or so ON A GOOD DAY. Yep- we were wrong. Turns out repairs will be about $3000-5000, which is more money than his mustang is even worth nowadays. Le sigh.
On a brighter side, Mathew’s sister, Kristin, has graciously told us that we can use her car for however long we want since she lives on her school campus and rides her bike everywhere. It was extremely gracious and we are so thankful, but I still can’t seem to shake off the fact that now we need a new car (at some point) and I won’t even be working this spring semester.
So here’s where the favor comes in. And it’s a big one. Pray for us? Pray that everything with work turns out ok, that we figure out our car situation and can sell it? I know some of you aren’t the “praying kind” but if you aren’t, could you at least send good thoughts our way? And if you DO believe in God, and maybe go to church, can you put us on your prayer list in Sunday School or something? I’m completely stressed and so is Mathew. We need some good right now, and honestly, you readers keep me going. I love the kind words and daily inspiration you bring everyday.
I appreciate those of you who took the time to read this. I always want to be honest with my friends, and you all are friends of mine. Thank you.
holli says
Stephanie, I AM of the praying kind and it’s an honor to pray for you – requested or not. Heck, thats the easy part silly girl. Praying isnt a huge favor to ask. Hang in there my friend. God puts many obstacles in our way at times that seem unreasonable. We just have to smile and understand that in some way this is his plan.
Congrats on your school and your closeness to graduating. That is fantastic!!
Jennifer says
Sending good thoughts your way. Hang in there, I am sure things will get better soon.
betterlifebetterwife says
Those stressful days/moments/times are the worst, but you’ll come out on the other side ok! Focus on the good things and what it will bring you…sending good thoughts your way <3
Katie says
I am so sorry you are in such a stressed out place and have SO much going on! that all sounds like a lot on your plate and is overwhelming. I am praying for you right this minute. praying that your car situation works out soon and for work and school. On really hard days I often remind myself that God knew that exactly that moment all those things would be going on in your life. Which can be confusing but comforting to, to know that he has a plan for all of it. and that when we go through trials we can either draw closer to him or farther away. praying that in the midst of all your stress you can learn something and draw closer to God!
Christi says
Awww! So sorry you had a rough day! Hang in there sweetie! EVERYTHING will work out in the end! xoxo
Dani @ My Make-up and Beauty Obsession! says
Oh you poor thing! I hate days like that when everything seems to go wrong! But chin up, everything happens for a reason so I know it will all sort itself out for you! I am sending you positive thoughts and a mental hug! xxx
Karen says
Done! Hopefully everything turns around soon and gets better! 🙂 Stay positive!
Veronica Lee Burns says
We just had a simlarish situation with cars. I’ll be praying for you!
Jessica McCoy says
I’m so so sorry that things are stressful right now. I’m praying that work gets better and a solution presents itself for his car. Also that life just isn’t so stressful all at one time. Remember that things always look the worst before they get better. Hope your day is better today. HUGS!
Heather says
I remember the stress of working and going to school at the same time, and I can say without a doubt that you are a rock star, Stephanie, to do both of those things, not to mention being such a creative and inspiring blogger! You are in my heart now and always, my dear. I hope the stress diminishes and that you find your way through this tough time.
Andrea says
Would be happy to pray for you and your husband. As the old saying goes, when it rains, it pours. I am a recent follower and still don’t know you very well, but I will be praying for some sunshine to head your way soon!
Andrea
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Brittany says
Oh no, I’m so sorry for all your stress sweet girl! Sending prayers and happy thoughts your way.
Ashley says
Done! Our car is acting up and while the part is only $300 and my husband used to be a mechanic so he can fix it we don’t have $300 to spend :/ he’s also trying to fix our fridge as I’m typing this haha.
Will be praying that everything works out, and it will I know it will just stay positive!
Helene says
Absolutely praying for you. I’m so sorry that you are having a rough time. Through reading your blog I know that you are brilliant strong and will get through it. xo-Helene
Yen says
I’m not the praying kind, but I am definitely sending you some good vibes! Can you feeeeeel it? Sorry to hear you guys are going through a rough situation, but I’m sure everything will be alright in the end 🙂
SarahJane Miller says
WOW! You are going through a lot today! All I can say to you is, I know that when we go through trials like this… it is all for our benefit and blessings will come! You will most definitely be in my prayers! Thinking of you today!
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Kristina Grant says
Prayers are being sent your way, sweetie!! If you need anything, please let me know. I’ve been teaching for five years {K & 1}, so anything you need in that area, let me know as well! God bless!!
Kaitlin Leigh says
Saying a prayer for you and your hubby!! Stay strong girl 🙂
Katie says
Not at all a “big” favor! I’m praying for you. 🙂 I know how frustrating it is when car repair costs pop up unexpectedly. Have you looked into maybe doing some of the repairs yourself? We were quoted $3000 for some stuff for my car recently, but Jeff was able to do some of it on his own (thanks to some YouTube videos and a phone call with a car-savvy friend), and we only had to pay $1000 for the part we needed the mechanic to do! Maybe y’all have already looked into that, but it might be worth a try if not!
Dani says
I am the praying kind and I will pray for you and Matthew! I have faith that everything will work out! <3 <3 <3