Lately I’ve been having all kinds of nightmares about the wedding. I mean, nothing where I’m waking up in sweats, but just these dreams where everything about my wedding is all wrong.
Last night, I had another one of these dreams (the second this week) where I forgot my veil and shoes and various other wedding items to the ceremony. It was awful! To boot, my hair wasn’t done, I had to run around the church (and the rainy parking lot) to get people to grab my stuff, and things were still missing.
Needless to say, it definitely made me think about the big day. As of right now, everything for the ceremony (ring bearer pillows, guestbook, veil, sash for my hair, etc) are in two big boxes at the top of my closet, but now I’m terrified that I really WILL forget something even though our wedding isn’t until December 3!
For all the other brides reading this, have you had any nightmares about mishaps at your wedding? If so, share! I’d love to hear them and know that I’m not the only one!
I just posted last week about wedding nightmares! yes, i’m getting them too!!! Sadly…I think this can be par for the course up until our big day..(and probably even after!)
I have an old post about wedding nightmares, too! They are the worst, but I think I’m going to write down what they were about so that I make sure they don’t happen on the actual day 😀
laura- yeah i think it’s not gonna get any better until we both get married!
lexi- i think its a good idea to write them down so they don’t happen on the actual day. i’m going to be tagging my posts when i have nightmares, so i dont forget either!
Oh sweetie, I’ve had some nightmares and bad anxiety! I didn’t think I would because I’m pretty organized but there are just some things out of my control. Last minute thing have been happening and it really puts a toll on you. My advice to you (with your 9 months of planning left) is to try and stay organized! Make yourself a notebook, file system, whatever works and stick to it. Get as many projects and things done as early on as you can, and don’t be afraid to ask friend and family for help! 🙂
thanks for the advice! i definitely am good at staying organized and staying ahead of the game, so as long as i do that for most of the wedding…i think i’ll be fine.
I have had several wedding nightmares and they are all completely outrageous. Just last night I dreamed my wedding (which is 6 months away) ended up getting moved to tomorrow and I was running around my wedding venue trying to get ready. I was filthy and gross and there wasn’t any time to take a shower. Since I had not even sent out the invitations yet, no one had shown up except for my fiance, who was calm and patiently waiting for me to walk down the isle. I was running next to the photographer and she was going next door to stop a live punk band from practicing so I could have my wedding ceremony in peace. It was a disaster and I was so glad to wake up. My wedding nightmares are all different, but somehow I am always ugly and in major need of a shower. And everyone around me is cold and couldn’t care less, like zombies. So weird! What do these dreams mean??